Chakras & control less / ENCOURAGE MORE

As part of my one-woman campaign to spread this vital information about the human energy system, I created a Compendium of information on the chakra system. You will never find it in a bookstore or online, but you can, for a donation, request a copy here.

As part of that process, I realized that I used all sorts of words like spirit, soul, archetype, incarnation that most of us assume we understand. But do we really? We don’t. Not really.

So I created The Unapologetically Eccentric Glossary. Here’s part of the introduction …

These are definitions that I have developed over 40 years of practice with actual persons and their struggles. They are things I say aloud to clients/patients to make sure we’re on the same page. What’s important, though, is not that you agree with my definitions. What’s important is that you give some serious thought to these sorts of words, figure out what you believe about them, and are able to articulate them clearly to yourself or to persons who come to you for care.

So just as it is supremely important to remember that the chakras are best considered as a system, and are meant, at all times, to work together, it is also incumbent upon each one of us to learn and know the vocabulary that best fits our belief systems.

For the next few weeks, I’ll be putting together all these definitions for each chakra. It’s important to see how these pairs work together, mostly because humans are very bad at not doing things.

That’s why the less/MORES have two sides: something to stop, and something to start which replaces whatever you’re stopping.

Today’s Chakra Vocabulary Word is control less/ENCOURAGE MORE.

Controlling less means you probably feel power-challenged in a given situation. It can also mean you’re afraid.

Please remember that even though we humans live as if we need control over our reality, the fact of the matter is that control is not within our capacities, not really.

In fact, the only thing any one of us can control is what happens between our own ears. That’s where dominion (from scripture) begins and ends.

One of the hardest things in the world is that we’re told we need to control things, and when we discover that we can’t, we feel betrayed.

Instead, focus on letting go and making space for something you don’t expect.

The saddest thing in the whole world is no surprises.

ENCOURAGE MORE means be your own best cheerleader by coming from the heart when interacting in power scenarios.

You can also cheerlead for others here.

Focus on feeling good, helping others to feel good, and delightful surprises.

Human beings, whether we like to think so or not, can be delicate creatures. It’s so much easier to hurt others when we are dismissive or minimizing.

Encouraging takes a little effort, but it’s so worth it. So worth it.

Think back to a time when one small word of encouragement made the difference for you. You can give that to others every day if you choose to.

Do it. Choose to encourage others.

Unsurprisingly, you’ll discover that it also encourages you.

Working at the level of energy is so much more efficient than working from outside in. When you source the energetic cause behind whatever is showing up in your life, and change that, the outer form will change. No exceptions.

Keep looking. Keep listening. Keep asking. All, all, all shall be revealed.

Blessèd week.